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উত্তর করেছেন : Maya Apa

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উত্তর করেছেন : Maya Apa

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Ami amr ammu abbur ekmatro shontan. amr ekta boro vai chilo oshushtho. amr theke 4 yrs er boro. Ami jokhon cls 4 theke 5 e uthbo erkm shomoy amr vai mara jay. tar pichone amr ammu abbu 14 yrs onk koshto korche. tar khaoa daoa, gosol, shobkichu kore dite hoito. ammu nijei or shob kaj korto. abr shongshar o shamlaito. abbu rate ofc theke eshe oke dekhto.. o mara jabar por Ami eka ekai boro hoi.. er moddhe majhkhane amr ammu abbur moddhe o kichu oshanti jay.. abbu bairer manush ke khub trust korto. jara kina valona.. majhkhane ek mohilar sathe o abbu valoi joraye jay.. ammu egulay khub beshi koshto pay. ammu onk chesta kore abbu ke thik pothe firaye anar. ammu abbu ke onk valobashto. oneke tokhon ammu ke bole je separation nite. bt ammu amr kotha vebe neyna & ammu amr vai er karone job kore nai. jar karone she financially independent chilona. sheitao ekta karon chilo.. egula nie onk oshanti jay kichudin.. ami ssc te golden paileo egular karone hsc te amr result valo hoyna.. jaihok pore abbu tar vhul bujhte pare & oi poth theke fire ashe.. er moddhe Ami University te admit hoi. valoi kate amdr jibon.. 2013 sale amr abbu hotat heart attack kore. tarpor tar bipass operation hoy.. operation er por kichudin abbu valo e thake.. oi shomoy theke hospital e douradouri te ammur upor onk pressure jay.. 2014 te ami pass kori CSE theke.. 2015 te abbu abr hotat khub sick hoe pore.. hospital e admit thake kichudin.. ammur upor abr pressure jay.. ammu nijer dike kheyal korto na valovabe.. onk tnsn korto shobkichu nie.. abbu bashay Ashe.. er kichudin por e ammu hotat kore mara jay.. abbu ke nie jeikhane amra tnsn e thaktam sheikhane ammu hotat kore amdr chere chole jay. jeita amra keo blv o korte partechilam na.. amr Mon tokhon khub kharap thakto.. bashay jedike takaitam ammur kotha mone Porto.. khali kadtam.. amr ammu amk onk valobashto.. abbur o Mon onk kharap thakto.. abbu ammu jaoar por aro beshi kore bujhte pare je ammu take kotota valobashto.. ammu mara jaoar 3 months er moddhe Ami ekta IT training e chance Pai. eita ekta residential training chilo 3 months er.. shara Bangladesh theke 100 Jon student ei training e selected hoy.. Ami ammur mara jaoar koshto theke kichuta dure jaoar jonno training e chole jaoar decision nei. amr abbu o sathe jay.. abbu oikhane kichudin chilo.. pore abbu bashay chole Ashe kaj e.. abr sesh er dike jay.. training e ekta chele amk khub pochondo korto. sesh er dike eita pray shobai e janto. amio bepar ta bujhte pari. bt Ami bepar take tokhon o oto seriously nei nai.. training e amr tar sathe khub beshi ekta kotha hoynai.. she naki Ami je shanto type er.. eita ke khub pochondo korchilo.. training sesh hoy.. ami bashay ashi.. tarpor chele ta aro valovabe tar feelings gula prokash kore.. er moddhe training theke eshe Ami ekta job e dhuki.. Ami abbu ke cheletar bepar e janai.. abbu oder bashay jay.. or family amdr bashay Ashe.  er moddhe she o ekta job e dhuke.. abbu mainly amr pochondo kei gurutto dey.. abbu vabe meye konodino karo kotha bolenai.. er kotha bolche.. cheletar moddhe hoyto valo kichu e ache.. abbur oder family dekheo kharap lagena.. chele o amr shob kichu dekhe shune e amk pochondo kore.. je amr ammu nai.. Ami eka.. pore 3/4 months er mathay amdr kabin hoe jay. eto taratari je shob hobe amra 2 jon o expect korinai.. bt abbu tokhon sick.. tai abbu o vabe meye jokhon pochondo korche so deri korar ar ki ache.. abbu o amk nie tnsn korto.. tai ar deri korena beshi.. or family o amdr khub pochondo kore.. khub valo behave kore.. Ora dhakar baire settled. dhakay oder kichu chilona.. Bier por amra jehetu abbu eka & sick so abbur sathe e thaki pray 1 yr.. husband prothom dike khub valo chilo. amr proti, abbur proti onk Maya chilo. abbur sickness e she onk support dey amdr.. hospital e jaito sathe sathe.. even amr abbur oshudh o shajay dito.. bt aste aste egula amr shashuri r khub hingsha hoy.. Ora 3 vai. amr husband mejho. or boro vai baire wife Soho settled. she kokhono desh e settled hobena.. beraite Ashe koekdin er jonno abr chole jay. & choto vai vrsity te pore bt she tar moto thake. kono daitto neyna oivabe.. amr husband e shob daitto ney. & tar e khub tan ma babar proti. er moddhe Ora dhakay hut kore bishal ek flat kine fele. amdr basha theke besh dur e. kinei shuru kore oshanti. amr husband er ar amdr sathe thaka or family pochondo kore na. amkeo pressure dite thake jate Ami oi bashay gie settled hoi. Ami onk bojhanor try kori je abbur ei obsthay take eka fele amr pokkhe oikhane permanently settle howa possible na. bt basha jehetu korche Ami try korbo 2 jaygay e thakar. balance korar. amr abbur shorir din din kharap hoy.. bortomane tar heart 25 % kaj kore. kichudin ageo she life support theke fire ashche.. oi shomoy Ora flat kinar mash khanek er moddhe Ami concive kori. tokhon or ma aro oshanti babray dey. tricks kore chele ke koekdin amdr bashay ashte deyna. Ami eta nie rege thaki. amr abbu o Ora erpor bashay ashle ektu beshi rag kore fele egula nie. amr husband er choto vai ke Ora dhakay admit koray oishomoy. oi bahana die e tara hut kore 2 unit milano bishal flat ta kine. tader uddessho chilo oi bashay ami, husband ar oi choto vai thakbo. Ami shob daitto eka nibo oi bashar. onara majhe moddhe ashbe.. amr shashuri Bier por thekei ranna banna nie khub oshanti korto.. jaihok.. Odin abbu rag korar por or family khub khepe jay. husband ke nie dhakar baire chole jay. or asha bondho kore dey. even o amk call deya o bondho kore dey. Ami er moddhe hospitalized o hoi. bt husband amk dekhte ashena. pore kichudin por 2 family er relatives ra boshe bepar tar ekta shomadhan hoy. shoabi bole je Ora 2 jaygay e thakbe.. bt ora bole je ekhon theke oder oi bashay amr beshi thakte hobe. bt shobai normal hoileo amr shashuri normal hoyna. erpor Ami oder bashay gele uni koekdin amr sathe kotha bole na. khabar deyna. Ami tokhon pregnant.. husband oi shomoy mtamti amr support e chilo.. erpor amra dhakar baire ghurte Jai Ami ar husband. jaoar age shashuri abr oshanti kore notun kore. husband tokhon amr support e kichu kotha bole & ma ke bole je she keno abr puran kotha tulteche. shashuri r onk hingsha hoy. amra je ghurte Jai tokhon o Ami husband er moddhe amr proti onk care dekhi.. bt oikhan theke ashar por aste aste Ami tar moddhe change dekhi.. oder oi bashay Ora amk ei obsthay eka thakte bole. amra ta korina dekhe Ora oshontusto hoy. amr shashuri o oi shomoy amr jonno eshe thakena. Ora kono lok o oder bashay rakhena. Ora chaito oi shomoy Ami oi bashay gie eka theke shob kaj kori.. edike husband o amr sathe eshe thakto na. dekhte ashleo chole jaito. bolto na vai eka bashay. eivabe 9 ta mash ami ekrkm eka par kori. er moddhe majhe majhei or ma Dhaka Ashe tar nijer proyojon e. uni jotobar e Ashe Ami try kori oi bashay jaoar. jeye thakar. jeye take rannar kaje jototuk pari help kori.. bt joto bar e Ami gechi kichu na kichu oshanti face korchi.. uni amdr eksathe thaka shojjo e korte parto na keno Jani. even husband ke shoray die uni amr sathe shuite chaito. husband o aro ashkara dito. Ami 7 months pregnant tokhon ekdin or baba amk deke bole shobar ranna banna koro. husband o aste aste ekdom Tara ja bole Tai Kora shuru kore. amk support deya bondho kore dey. ma baba ja bolto Tai korto. erpor amr pregnancy er last month e shashuri abr dhakay ashe. bt ei last mnth e Ami ar Kono oshanti face korte chacchilam na. Tai Ami husband ke boli je Ami delivery hoe gele oder bashay jabo bt ekhon ar parchina douradouri korte. ei nieo onk oshanti hoy je Ami keno gelam na. jaihok pore delivery er por din e Ami hospital theke oder bashay jai. Ami vabi ekta baby hoiche ekhon Ora ar ki kharap korbe. husband er o amr proti Maya barbe hoyto.. jaoar 15/20 din Tara mtamti valo e thake. erpor e Tara shuru kore ranna nie oshanti. oi shomoy Ami vhore uthe husband ke keno nasta deina, ranna korina egula nie oshanti shuru kore. Ami shojjo kore shob kori. amr shelai tokhon o purapuri shukay nai.. shashuri majhe majhe i er moddhe indirectly amk separation er kotha bolto.. husband o ma er kotha nie eshe amr sathe kharap behave korto. erpor 1 mnth er mathay onara amk oi bashay eka fele chole jay. abr Ami amr abbur bashay ashbo sheitao tara pochondo korena. Ami koshto kore thaki ei 1 mnth er baby nie eka bashay. husband shei shondhay ofc theke ashto. debor bikal e.  Ami sharadin eka thaktam. ranna banna shob kortam. baby r o shob kortam. erpor shashuri abr ashe dhakay. abr oshanti shuru kore. amr Bier goyna chay or baba. bole shoshur bari r goyna shoshur Bari te thakbe. onno kothao na. ei nie oshanti shojjo korte na pere Ami goyna o oder die dei. shei goyna amk ar deynai. or ma tar kache nie rekhe diche dhakar baire. bt goyna deyar shomoy Ami husband er theke sign nei je goyna die dichi. erpor Tara kichudin thanda thake.. hoyto oi sign er vhoye.. erpor amr ekta onk valo job offer ashe. husband bole Babu 6 months hoile job korte paro. bt jei na amr job ta confirm hoy, onk valo salary offer kore she kotha change kore fele. bole aro 2/3 yrs por job korte parbo. tar age na. ekhon baby dekhte hobe. Ami concive korchi theke job charchi.. already 1 yr gap. aro 2/3 yrs por ki Ami valo ekta job pabo! Ami husband ke onk bojhanor try kori bt she bojhena. bole hoy job korba ar nahole separation! amk bole Babu dekhar keo nai. amr abbur bashay desh er dur shomporko er ek chachi ache. boyoshko mohila. uni valo care kore. bt onar kache rekhe jaoa oder pochondo na. onake bole kajer lok.. to Ami boli taile tmr ammu ke nie asho. Ami onar kache rekhei jabo ofc e. oder basha theke ofc o kache. bt Ora sheitao korbe na. kono lok o rakhbe na. pore er moddhe ekdin amr job nie torkatorkir ek porjaye husband 3 talak uccharon kore. pore Ami shokale baby nie amr bashay chole ashi. ashar age obossho amk Mana kore jaite.. bt Ami chole ashi.. job e join kori. er moddhe shoshur shashuri phn dito & job birodhi kothabarta bolto shashuri.. er 1 week er mathay husband amk kichu age theke na bole divorce letter pathay dey. pathanor por tar ma baba amk abr call deya shuru kore. tara bole je chele naki eta tader na janaye korhce. bt tara purapuri e etar sathe jorito. or ma advocate. she e eita korte chele ke aro help korche. tar baba amk 2 din call dey. bole she ei bepar ta nie boshte chay. pore amr family theke tader contact Kora hoy kichudin por e. 2 family relatives ra mile boshe.. bt Ora kono relatives ane nai. anche 2/3 ta frnd or ma babar.. ar ekjon advocate. bt Tate kono labh hoyna. Ora Odin shorto dey job chere gele hobe nahole na. amr family bole je amk koek mnth korte die e o dekhuk je Ami job kore shongshar shamlaite pari kina.  na parle Ami chere dibo. bt husband bole na Ami ekhon job ta mene nite partechina. pore Odin meeting sehs hoe jay. erpor tar baba abr call dey amr abbu ke. bole notun bole ki kotha ache. ashteche Dhaka nxt week. bt tarpor tar ar response nai. abbu call dile bole ha cheler sathe kotha bole apnake janacchi koi boshbo. bt ar janay na. & mb Odin off kore rakhe. erpor Ami koekdin age husband ke ekta call dei. take kotha bolar jonno boli. pore she call die place time dey dekha korar. bt oidin dekha kore amr tar approach khub ekta valo lagenai. Mone hoynai she Kono solution chay.. Ami bojhanor try kori jotota pari.. amr baby ekhon 7 months.. meye baby.. Ami take offer dei je Ami amr abbur kache thaka jehetu tar pochondo na thik ache Ami or basha thekei job korbo. lagle abbuke or bashar kache kothao shift korbo. o jehetu sacrifice korte rajina. Ami eita korte raji. she shudhu bole dekhi. vebe dekhbo. mane holo ma er sathe discuss korbe arki.. or moddhe ekta vhoy o ache je o or ma babar against e gele Tara take property dibena. or ma erkm vhoy dekhay.. oder onk property.. husband er moddhe o egular proti nojor ache. jodio she govt job e dhukche.. Ami ekhon khub koshte achi.. ar 1.5 months ache.. erpor automatically divorce hoe jabe.. Janina ki hobe.. Ami chaichilam husband tar vhul bujhe fire ashuk. shongshar ta tikuk. ekta baby ache.. bt eitao thik je Ami attoshomman haraye oikhane shongshar korte chaina.. husband to support kore na.. ma ja bole Tai kore ekhon.. eta thik na hoileo to prblm.. ekhon amr ki kora uchit..?

উত্তর করেছেন : Maya Apa

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