I am the mother of a two years old baby. I have been suffering from depression since my 3rd year of medical school. I was on antidepressant medications until I came to know of my pregnancy. Though ours is a love marriage which was later arranged by both families, my husband has been very much uncooperative since day one. He is abusing me every chance that he gets. At least on two occasions, he has beaten me up. Since the first incident, I have tried to get separated, but none of our families would let that happen. My husband is destroyed my confidence, segregated me from my family and friends and threatens me every time I take an initiative to get back to my post graduation. I have completed 1st parts of both FCPS and MD and need 3 years of honorary training before I could move on to the next part. I have been out of my studies since my baby was born, because I simply couldn't handle all the criticism and negativity thrown at me by my husband for being an irresponsible mother who wants to leave her child at home for selfish reasons! All of us, including his parents have tried to convince him, but to no avail. Now I feel like I am dying a little bit every day. I have frequent thoughts of committing suicide. I don't know how to be happy anymore. Divorce is not an option for me. I feel trapped since my family's reputation and my parents' health are at stake. I don't know if I have made all the points clear, but please suggest what I should do. Discretion is utmost important here. Hoping to hear from you soon.

Dear User,Thank you for your question.Dear I am feeling really very sorry to hear your story. You are a very brilliant student, you have so many potentials.  why would you stop yourself from getting higher studies. Remember one thing that only education stays with us, everything and everyone can betray. I think you should not stop yout study. I know this is not easy for you, but you need to do this struggle. And in case of divorce, if you really feel like this relationship is a burden for you, which is leading you to commit suicide then I do not think its a healthy relationship for you. You can think again whether can you survive in this unhealthy relationship anymore or not. You can talk to your husband that what you are feeling right now? how his attitude is lowing your self confidence. You can ask for cooperation from him. If still he denies, then you can think of coming out of this relationship. Because I think you are an independent lady with so many potentials, so you do not need to stay on a abusive relationship. Just think.I hope we have helped you.If you have any further questions please contact Maya Apa again,Always by your side,Maya Apa.

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