Dear User,Thank you for your question.He/she looks at you like you’re a unicorn, like he/she can’t believe you exist. He/she may even come right out and tell you, “I can’t believe someone like you exists.” It isn’t a look of lust and desire. Instead, it’s marked by a certain awe, serenity, and inner calm. It’s a look reserved only for you. It’s not only the way he/she looks at you; it’s the frequency. Real love is about giving, not taking. This is why parents typically love their children more than their children love them. You would think it would be the opposite. From birth through our teenage years (and sometimes beyond!) kids take and parents give. Every parent will tell you that you never know real love until you have a child, and that’s because this kind of love is all about giving.When you love someone, you want to give that person everything you have. This isn’t about material possessions. You want to give by being the best you can, you want to make them happy, to enhance their life, you want to do things for them that will make them happy.Love isn’t merely a feeling; it’s a verb and it comes across in actions. The biggest action that indicates a man loves you is when he gives you all he can.Everyone is busy; we all have work or school or other commitments. When a man/woman loves you, he/she will make spending time with you a priority. And if he/she really doesn’t have time, he’ll make sure to let you know when he/she will. When a man loves you, you’re the most important person in his/her life and he/she makes sure to carve out a place in it for you.He/she wants to meet your family and all of your friends, and he/she really wants them to like him/her. He/she makes an effort to get to know them and make a good impression. He/she wants to know all about your passions and hobbies and tries to connect to these areas of your life as much as possible.At the same time, he/she also wants to immerse you in his/her life and for you to meet all of his/her people. He/she wants you to be best friends with everyone he’s/her close to and he wants the people in his life to love you the way he/she does.He/she notices things about you that others don’t. He/she notices how you interact with others, how people feel in your presence, how your mind works, how you process emotions, how you express yourself. He/she pays attention to all the little details and he remembers them. He appreciates the full scope of who you are, the good and the bad.He/she doesn’t just love you, he/she loves things about you. Really loving people doesn’t mean you love the way they make you feel (although many people believe that’s what love is), it’s about loving them as they are at their core. This sort of love has nothing to do with how good that person makes you feel about yourself. That’s not to say someone you love can’t or won’t make you feel good about yourself, but you can’t truly love people only because they make you feel good. That’s a very selfish kind of love, a love that feeds your need to feel good in the moment, not a life-changing, deep love.When someone really sees you, he/she sees not just everything you are but everything you want to be, and he’ll or she will let you know when you’re falling short. The catch? This may actually make you feel bad about yourself. If you’re being a jerk to strangers, treating a friend poorly, or not living up to your obligations somehow, someone who loves you will let you know. It may not feel good, but it’s a sign that he really sees you, all of you, and cares about you. Your happiness may be even more important! When you love someone, really love someone, their happiness is your happiness. This is especially true for men/women who need to feel like they can make a man/woman happy. If you tell him/her that something makes you unhappy and he keeps doing it, this is not a sign that he’s in love with you. A man/woman who loves you will avoid doing things that make you unhappy and will learn the things will make you happy, and he’ll make an effort to do those things.I hope we have helped you.If you have any further questions please contact Maya Apa again,Always by your side,Maya Apa.
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